Things Remembered

It occurred to me last night as I was watching Farrah play, I need to start writing down all the "little things." Recently I have just been in awe of her and I would be really sad if later on I forgot all of the things she amazed me with. In the moment I think I would never forget something like this, and yet, my memories of her at this time last year are limited. Of course I remember the big stuff like walking and talking, but I don't remember all the little things. And to be honest I don't really remember dates for the big things. So one of my New Year's Declarations (like that better than resolution) is that I am going to do a better job of documenting little miss Farrah.


So may I present you Farrah Lynn at 2 years and 1 month old. Sidenote: It's crazy to me that she's at a point where when someone asks how old she is you tell them in years not months. Time needs to slow down just a little bit so I have time to cope with all this change!

• Weighs just about 30 lbs and is 2' 11.5". She's a big girl. I remember the days when she was so light and picking up my cat required me to bend my legs so I didn't hurt my back and now my cat is nothing and Farrah's the heavy one.



• As evidenced by the last point we don't have any difficulty getting her to eat. Hmmm I wonder where she gets that from? Her favorites are Y-O-G-U-R-T (we have to spell it around here because if we say it she goes crazy), fruit/veggie pouches (the only way we can get her to eat veggies), cheese, bacon, pancakes, any carbs really and bananas. She's even started making this whiny face and saying "hungey, hungey" when she wants food. It doesn't necessarily mean she's hungry because she could've just eaten a fillet and still say that. ( I don't really give her fillet, so hold your comments.) When she finishes eating and wants more she says "mo hungey." Is it bad that all the cute things she says that are completely incorrect English are my favorite things she says and I don't want to correct her? One of the things I want to hold on to most.



• She loves her some Dora. Or Do-Do as she calls her. Although I don't know that this is something I could ever forget. Dora, Boots, Backpack, Swiper, and the rest of the gang are ingrained in my brain at this point. For her birthday and Christmas she got pretty much everything Dora ever made. I should have bought stock in Nick Jr before the holidays. Her Current faves are her Dora lipglosses and Dora underwear. She also loves wearing her Dora PJs and loves coloring in her Dora coloring books. She loves it all really. I try to limit the amount she actually watches because if it were up to her she'd watch it all day, but I must say, she has learned a lot from Dora.



• We're starting to work on potty training. If she was a little older I might be more consistent with taking her to the potty every so often but right now I just remind her when I see her going that she might want to go visit her potty but she always says no. She likes sitting on it and playing on it though when she's not actually going. She's really catching on to things we say and do because one time when she pooped and I took off her diaper I said "OHHHH" really loud when I saw the damage she had created in her diaper and now when I change her diaper on the changing table whether she pees or poops and I take her diaper off, she looks down and goes "OHHHH!" Silly girl.



• Speaking of things she says, her vocabulary has really taken off. She tries repeating all the words we say to her so even if she doesn't know what it means she can still say it. Here are some of my favorites that she doesn't get quite right but are so adorable I won't correct her just yet: Yogurt=Water... don't know why because she used to say it correctly. Water=water so apparently in her mind 1 word means 2 things. Anything she likes she puts the word "mo" in front of to indicate she wants to do something again or wants more of something. For instance if we're running around the house together and we stop she'll say "mo run." ADORABLE. Some of my very favorites came on our recent trip to LA to visit my hubby's family. She has 2 uncles, Uncle Vartan and Uncle John. They became Ah-bee-dah-bah and Ah-buh-dah. In her head that must have been what she heard. And we referred to her Grandma as Nana but she decided to call her Ba-Ba so Ba-Ba it is.



• I know every parent thinks this about their kid but she is incredibly smart. Like incredibly. These may be things that every 2 year old is "supposed to" be able to do, I'm not really sure I'm behind on my parent books but last night I was watching her in complete awe which is what inspired this post. She knows all the letters and numbers. I still haven't got her to say the complete alphabet or count from 1-10 straight although I'm not convinced she doesn't know how, but she recognizes every letter and number which almost seems like it would be more difficult than just reciting back a sequence of sounds. She has this magnet board with all the letters and numbers on it and yesterday she was pulling them off one by one and saying what it was as she was pulling it off. Didn't matter if it was a letter or number. She pulled every last one off and only messed up on one. Then we were reading a book that just has a bunch of small pictures and the matching word. The first page has all the body parts. I would say what it was and she would point to where it was on her body. She knew all of them. Then we got to the page with the animals. She loves animals so I knew that she knew what all of them were so I asked her what sound each of them made and she knew all of that too. She knew all the colors and we recently started working on shapes too. The last page was shapes and I was surprised that she knew all of them because we just started on that one. One of the shapes was a crescent so I didn't think she'd get that one but she looked at it for a minute and said "moon." I was so proud of her I gave her the biggest hug. The things that get a parent excited, I swear.



• As I mentioned in the last point, she loves animals. Her favorite is still cats. Must get that from my mom. Don't get me wrong I love cats, I mean I have 3 so I must, but she looooovvvvesss cats. When she goes to my mom's house she gets excited to see all of her cats (she does animal rescue). She knows all their names and will run over to them and get down to their level and just hug them for as long as they'll let her. It has to be genetic but I think the fact that she has been around cats and a dog since she was born has helped her have no fear of animals.



• She has her moments but for the most part she is such a sweet girl. You can tell she really cares about people and animals. The other day someone was setting off firecrackers behind our house on the bike trail and our dog Jimmy Choo got scared and started wincing and getting all shaky like Chihuahuas do and Farrah went over to him, crouched down and stared at his face and started petting his back and said "Ok Jimmy. Ok Jimmy." I hope all the moments like those are things that stick in my mind for a long time.

Moral of the story, I am so in love with this little girl. I now understand what a Mother's Love truly is. There will always be meltdowns, moments of frustration and tantrums. But in the end she is more important to me than anything else in this world, and every decision I make is to ensure she is safe and that she thrives. I can't wait to watch her grow and see what she's interested in. In the meantime, I'll keep writing so I'll keep remembering.