Support

One of the things that has come up since Kellen passed away is how many amazing people we have in our lives.  And they're all from different places too.  Friends, family, coworkers, church family, I could go on and on.  I wanted to take a minute to acknowledge everyone that has sent cards, sent flowers, brought food, sent messages of condolences, came to Kellen's service, sent money, gave a hug or just lent an ear.  Your unending support is amazing.  I've had several people tell me how awesome it is to see how much support we have.  I agree.  I have been reminded that despite all of the horrible things going on in the world, there still are many great people out there and we're happy that we know so many of them.
First up is our family.  They are grieving in their own way but they have still been there for us.  Running errands, watching Farrah, yard work, house work, phone calls, sending jokes to cheer us up, whatever we need.  We have the best family both near and far. 
Next is our friends.  And I use the term "friends" because technically we don't share any of the same DNA but we are blessed to have friends so close that they're basically family.  I have friends that would do absolutely anything for us and have.  My best friends arrived at our house on October 29th faster than the ambulances got to my house, that's how amazing they are.  They have done so much more for us than we have ever done for them.  I just hope we can return the favor someday but for something happier... like watching their kids or pets when they go on a vacation :)
Next up we have our coworkers.  We're blessed to think of these people more like family than friends.  Abe's work has been so supportive and understanding.  They have allowed him to take as much time as he needs and everyone at the office has stepped up to take on his workload so he doesn't have to think about it. 
My amazing Mary Kay girlfriends are the best.  I have always said that when my kids are older, if they're ever in a place where they need help and I'm not there, they can pick up a phone book (who am I kidding, they'll just google it) and find a Mary Kay director in their area and I'm 100 % sure that Mary Kay lady would lend them a car, food, a bed, whatever they needed because that's just how we roll.  I have received hundreds and hundreds of cards.  This picture is just a fraction.  I've had people bringing food, holding appointments for me and then slipping the money from the sales under my door, and just working hard to honor Kellen this month.  I have not been working my business so that I can be with my family and yet our unit is having our best month ever and it's not even over yet.  They're doing so great that we will be earning another car by the end of December when we've only had this one a couple months.  I've even received hand written cards from the President of Mary Kay and from the corporate staff as well.  I have never been more proud to represent this company. 

My mom's club friends are up next.  These ladies and I have a special bond.  We all love each others kids very much.  Whenever I was at a mom's club event I could pass Kellen off to whoever.  Here he is being held by my friend Kelsy in the back row at our Child Health and Safety fair event.  

When Kellen passed they started a fundraiser to help us pay for his funeral expenses and the amount collected far surpassed what we needed.  These women are amazing and I'm grateful for their friendship everyday.
And lastly, I wanted to thank our church family.  I can't imagine making this walk without my faith in God.  I actually feel very sorry for anyone that doesn't have faith because this experience, plus knowing what I will face for the rest of my life would be unimaginable if I didn't know that Kellen was at peace, with God, watching over us, and that we will see him again.   So how can I begin to thank the people from our church that have been praying for us, dropping off meals, and being a support for our family.  Our pastors Shaun and Dianna came to our house right away that morning when Kellen passed when they got a call from someone at the police department saying what had happened.  They were with us at our darkest moment, as we had to answer questions to the police department and then say our goodbyes to our son.  How do you thank someone for that?  Their love they have shown us has been a wonderful reminder of God's love.  Not to mention there are some darn good cooks at our church!  Man, my waistline is definitely proof of that!

If I have forgotten to mention anyone I sincerely apologize but please know that we are grateful for everyone that has shown their support over these past few weeks.  Kellen was the biggest joy you could ever imagine and by showing your support to us you are honoring his life.